A great friend to Sahara & a truly fine person: Rick Springfield! -
Good Evening, Everyone. I began writing this post this morning and simply ran out of time. So please forgive my tardiness. Thursday, November 5th was the second anniversary of the passing of Sahara Aldridge. Those of you who have been following my Blogsite over the years recall this remarkable little girl who touched the hearts of thousands--and mine--in a way that is difficult to explain. Although I'm a little late with this post by traditional standards, I still feel the need to Honor her with a mention because meeting Sahara was one of the greatest gifts of my life and I was very fortunate. Rick Springfield's "Concert for Sahara" took place on December 8, 2006 at the Show Me Center in her home town of Cape Girardeau, Missouri. This incredible musician had known Sahara and her parents Shannon and Amy from the time Sahara was 7 years-old. She was diagnosed in July, 2006 with a brain tumor and she kicked its ass.
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When I awoke this morning, I had no idea what I would write. The Good Lord took care of that and there was no deliberating. On November 5, 2007 we lost this sweet angel who for 13 years on this earth was really the personification of everything that is good and true and right and positive about our world. They say The Lord works in mysterious ways. Well, that's true. Some people understand this and others miss it. Again, I was very fortunate because I did understand.
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In my own isolated corner of the world, I was wrapping up work rebuilding my Mom's home in the years following my father's death and a layoff from ABC News in the Southwest. I spent a year at an NBC television affiliate in Ohio before freelancing in cable television and becoming very busy employing myself in a number of adventures in television and radio. On October 16, 2006 I entered negotiations with my agent to be a field reporter in New York for a national weekend news magazine. The negotiations ended unsuccessfully at 10:35 PM on November 3, 2006. I felt nothing for some strange reason. I wasn't upset. I was a little disappointed but nothing on the magnitude of what anyone would expect. I have no idea why even tonight looking back. I just didn't care as much as I thought I would and felt more focused about carving out a space of sanity for myself away from the news business. I knew a chapter in my life had come to an end, and perhaps in hindsight, that consumed more of my attention than worrying about why a group of very good people and myself in New York just couldn't come to terms on my gig. So, before calling it a night, I turned on CNN Headline News. CNN was still using their scrolling ticker along the bottom of the television screen with the latest news. Suddenly, I read that Rick Springfield had announced a major concert fundraiser for a 12-year old girl battling brain cancer in Missouri. He was donating his performance fee. The following morning, I spent the next 13 hours on a rented computer in a print shop learning everything I could about this little girl who loved Basketball, Cats, Shopping, Cheesecake and Rick Springfield concerts. At one point, a store manager approached me at the end of his shift to see if everything was alright and I told him about Sahara's situation. This young man was into his third year of medical school before changing his mind and switching his focus to earning an MBA degree. From listening to him, I learned that he had spent most of his junior high and high school years taking classes from hospital rooms after many reconstructive plastic surgeries to his face to correct a severe birth defect. From this life experience, he said that he related to Sahara and that he would approach his company to underwrite my computer rental fees, faxing and printing services. (In all, Fed Ex Kinko's covered $4,000 of my fees over the next 18 days).
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During my conversation with the manager, I mentioned that I wanted to assemble a grass roots bus trip from Cincinnati, Ohio to Cape Girardeau, Missouri and the long story-short was that I was given the gift of meeting Sahara and her family. The concert was an incredible experience and an act of love from Rick's involvement as the performing artist, to approximately 3,000 of us who either flew or drove to Missouri for the show to celebrate Sahara's shining spirit of fun and laughter. Many loving friendships were made as a result of this concert that drew so many of us together.
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One of many newspaper articles written about Sahara put it this way:
"Sahara loved her family, friends, basketball, her school, her teachers, her coaches, her doctors and nurses, her beloved cats and dogs, Semo, Cleo, Puddy, Stormbringer and LuLu, the High Hill Hecklers, the Lady Redhawks, the Tennessee Titans, the Lady Vols and the St. Louis Cardinals.
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"She also loved going to Rick Springfield concerts and rocking out with the band. She loved traveling, loud music, pizza and hanging out with her best girlfriends. If one word could sum up Sahara, it must be LOVE".
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One place that was very important to Sahara was the Mississippi Valley Therapeutic Horsemanship Program where she rode a horse named "Candy". The horses name today is "Sahara's Candy". A year after Sahara's passing, Rick Springfield returned to The Cape to play an acoustic concert benefiting MVTH. In a season where we are about to give Thanks for all that we have in our lives, it just feels right to mention the following. If you'd like to make a contribution in honor of Sahara here's where you can do that:
Mississippi Valley Therapeutic Horsemanship P.O. Box 154 Jackson, Missouri 63755
- Until the world stops turning Until the wind doesn’t blow Until the sun stops shining Until the river doesn’t flow Until my heart stops beating Forevermore The legend lives on Remember the name Sahara “Hoops”, 21 With much love, Amy and Shannon -
Thanksgiving: For Shannon, Amy and Sahara Alridge.
What a beautiful tribute, Michael. Sahara's smile is radiant and joy-filled...it shows a peace that surpassed her circumstances... My prayers are with her parents, whom I am sure still miss her deeply each day. God bless YOU for reminding us all what it is true and noble and good. You are a blessing to have stumbled upon. And, obviously, a blessing to so many.
it's interesting how you woke up one day and realized everything had changed. and you found the next great thing that made meaning in your life. sahara sounds like an amazing girl. she made things happen in her life too.
Julie: I read your note and thought to myself, 'Oh, if only people were as loving as your generous comments here, the world would be so much nicer'! I am SO grateful for your Kindness. I'm very touched. Thank you.
My own personal feeling in meeting Sahara was that I've never heard anyone say "Thank You" with such a sincere feeling of Love and Humility. She had a gift and I can't find words just now to be more clearer. There was no doubt in my mind that I was in the midst of someone truly remarkable. Her website is well worth a visit and I have it on my Blogroll. See you soon over at your site, Julie! :)
Seraphine: Yeah, it was quite a dramatic change--what you're referencing. I was alone in it and I'm still alone in that experience I guess. But God understands it best and that's fine with me. My trust is in Him. Getting beyond me...
Sahara's life was a life well lived. I hope her example reminds us that all the materialism and money and escapism in the world will not bring anyone one ounce of true happiness at any "end point". But you used the right word when you said Sahara was "amazing". I can't tell how many of us have said this same thing. When you meet a remarkable child like Sahara who understands so clearly what really matters in Life, it's about emotional honesty and our ability to live from Love and not from Fear.
I often read through Shannon, Amy and Pamela's posts on Sahara's site and my heart is filled with this same affirmation of feeling, over and over again. Thank you Sera!:)
This is just simply too sad for word... It is so unfair for a child to be taken so soon. As always, you are a never ending source of inspiration and kindness.
Suzana: Yes. But one has to stop and ponder how many, many lives Sahara touched--both children and adults alike with her smile, her humor, her laughter and her zest for living. We would be very deprived had we never known about this wonderful girl. She touched us all and she made us care! Lots of Love and (((HUGS)))!
So sad, but so nice of you to write a tribute to her. It's always hard to hear of the death of children... I remember your bus trip, that was exciting and I found myself wishing I was closer to Cincinnati.
Sage: What a great friend you are to remember. I feel that many thousands of people were inspired so Positively in their lives by Sahara. Again, I appreciate that you remembered. Thank you!
Enid: You're note brings back a fun memory. We were all in the hotel lobby signing one of the bus window posters mounted on foam core. Rick came in and was visiting with us and saying hello. A bit later Amy, I believe, pulled up in her car with Sahara in the back seat to pick up Rick to go out to dinner. We all looked outside and saw Sahara jumping up and down with excitement in the back seat as Rick got in the passenger door. This is a fun and spirited memory to savor! As I said, there were a lot of us there. Good memories...all good! Lots of Love and (((HUGS))) to you Enid!
Gigi: You are very special too! I'm just a guy from the Mid-West who considers himself very, very Blessed to have met such wonderful people like Sahara, and her parents Amy and Shannon. That's all. They have touched all of our hearts and we really love them dearly. I feel they know this. And out of this genuine feeling, we want to do everything we can to actively support them--FOREVER.
Clearly Sahara was a special child - a quality you recognized immediately. I have to believe that you were less than upset about your situation because your focus was needed elsewhere. That's a special gift.. for her and for you. And kudos to Kinkos (never thought I'd use that particular alliteration) for helping out.
Hilary: It was a single shop in Eastern Cincinnati close to the Kentucky border. That young man who helped me was exceptional. I have found that people bring forward their tender mercy in circumstances similar to the one I described involving Sahara. There were many, many great people who stepped forward with love who cared and still care! Thanks for stopping by! :)
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What a beautiful tribute, Michael. Sahara's smile is radiant and joy-filled...it shows a peace that surpassed her circumstances...
My prayers are with her parents, whom I am sure still miss her deeply each day.
God bless YOU for reminding us all what it is true and noble and good.
You are a blessing to have stumbled upon. And, obviously, a blessing to so many.
it's interesting how you woke up one day and realized everything had changed. and you found the next great thing that made meaning in your life.
sahara sounds like an amazing girl. she made things happen in her life too.
Julie: I read your note and thought to myself, 'Oh, if only people were as loving as your generous comments here, the world would be so much nicer'! I am SO grateful for your Kindness. I'm very touched. Thank you.
My own personal feeling in meeting Sahara was that I've never heard anyone say "Thank You" with such a sincere feeling of Love and Humility. She had a gift and I can't find words just now to be more clearer. There was no doubt in my mind that I was in the midst of someone truly remarkable. Her website is well worth a visit and I have it on my Blogroll. See you soon over at your site, Julie! :)
Seraphine: Yeah, it was quite a dramatic change--what you're referencing. I was alone in it and I'm still alone in that experience I guess. But God understands it best and that's fine with me. My trust is in Him. Getting beyond me...
Sahara's life was a life well lived. I hope her example reminds us that all the materialism and money and escapism in the world will not bring anyone one ounce of true happiness at any "end point". But you used the right word when you said Sahara was "amazing". I can't tell how many of us have said this same thing. When you meet a remarkable child like Sahara who understands so clearly what really matters in Life, it's about emotional honesty and our ability to live from Love and not from Fear.
I often read through Shannon, Amy and Pamela's posts on Sahara's site and my heart is filled with this same affirmation of feeling, over and over again. Thank you Sera!:)
This is just simply too sad for word... It is so unfair for a child to be taken so soon.
As always, you are a never ending source of inspiration and kindness.
Suzana: Yes. But one has to stop and ponder how many, many lives Sahara touched--both children and adults alike with her smile, her humor, her laughter and her zest for living. We would be very deprived had we never known about this wonderful girl. She touched us all and she made us care! Lots of Love and (((HUGS)))!
So sad, but so nice of you to write a tribute to her. It's always hard to hear of the death of children... I remember your bus trip, that was exciting and I found myself wishing I was closer to Cincinnati.
Sage: What a great friend you are to remember. I feel that many thousands of people were inspired so Positively in their lives by Sahara. Again, I appreciate that you remembered. Thank you!
I too loved Sahara's great spirit and smile.
Thanks for sharing this rememberance in her honour.
Enid: You're note brings back a fun memory. We were all in the hotel lobby signing one of the bus window posters mounted on foam core. Rick came in and was visiting with us and saying hello. A bit later Amy, I believe, pulled up in her car with Sahara in the back seat to pick up Rick to go out to dinner. We all looked outside and saw Sahara jumping up and down with excitement in the back seat as Rick got in the passenger door. This is a fun and spirited memory to savor! As I said, there were a lot of us there. Good memories...all good! Lots of Love and (((HUGS))) to you Enid!
What a beautiful little girl.
I love how you give your heart to all these beautiful souls.
You are a special man Michael..
Gigi: You are very special too! I'm just a guy from the Mid-West who considers himself very, very Blessed to have met such wonderful people like Sahara, and her parents Amy and Shannon. That's all. They have touched all of our hearts and we really love them dearly. I feel they know this. And out of this genuine feeling, we want to do everything we can to actively support them--FOREVER.
Love and (((HUGS))) to you!
Michael
Clearly Sahara was a special child - a quality you recognized immediately. I have to believe that you were less than upset about your situation because your focus was needed elsewhere. That's a special gift.. for her and for you. And kudos to Kinkos (never thought I'd use that particular alliteration) for helping out.
Hilary: It was a single shop in Eastern Cincinnati close to the Kentucky border. That young man who helped me was exceptional. I have found that people bring forward their tender mercy in circumstances similar to the one I described involving Sahara. There were many, many great people who stepped forward with love who cared and still care! Thanks for stopping by! :)
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